The Divided Self by R.D. Laing. Paperback Edition. Published in 1960 & 2010 by Penguin Modern Classics, printed in Great Britain. ISBN: 978-0-241-56297-0 RRP UK£10.99
"At some stage a machine which was previously assembled... may find its connexions divided".... Norbert Wiener in Human use of human beings.
Have you ever accidentally split your clothing? That beautiful skirt or expensive designer suit are now torn apart. Usually you can take that item of clothing to an expert like a tailor or seamstress who will endeavour to fix that item without it looking as if were ever damaged. Sadly, at times this is just not possible - the damage is to great. Laing's classic book The Divided Self (1960 & 2010) talks about people that are extremely mentally unwell. He writes from not just the perspective of a psychiatrist but from someone who genuinely wants to destigmatise and de-medicalise these conditions. He expresses this through what he calls 'a phenomenological lens'. So what is phenomenology and how will this help us interpret Laing's book?
Understanding the written word using the written word
Phenomenology is a form of scientific qualitative research- examines the written word or our speech - based in philosophical ideals. This research type was constructed back in 1870 by a professor called Edmond Husserl from Germany. It literally means to look at the experiences of humanity from the perspective of the person who wrote it in the same time or period that it was written (Stanford Universities Philosophical Encyclopaedia, 2003).
To some his book can be a bit of a handful and difficult to understand as Laing wrote it in a scientific jargon laid way rather in a more general public friendly way like some of his contemporises at the time (1960/70's) such as Oliver Sacks, Stanley Milgram or Phillip Zimbardo. Laing tries to reveal the conditions & life history of five of his patients that suffered from chronic mental illness - Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder etc. He attempts to understand what has caused this so called 'split' in their person compared to those did not exhibit these symptoms. He was well known for his attempts at seeing the patient as an equal and as a person worthy of respect and being treated with dignity. This was a radical idea back then and one that was not very popular in the psychiatric or medical field who had always told patients to never question a decision or diagnosis let alone to treat them with respect! We have doctors like Laing to thank for the slightly more open way medicine treats its patients especially its "mental" ones. These men and women were real trail blazers.
The paperback edition (2010) version has got a new introduction by Dr Anthony David who is a neurologist and lectures at the Maudsley & Bethlem (former Bedlam) NHS Hospitals in North London, UK. Laing splits this book into three sections: 1. Theory 2. Psychosis and lastly examination of his own ideas through a more detailed patient history.
"The only living things in the prairie were wild beasts. Rats infested this city. Her existence was depicted in images of utterly barren, arid desolation" (p.205).
Although I am a scientist and understand phenomenology some what, I personally found it difficult to read and had to go through it in stages. It was hard to get on Lains's wave length at times. Although some of what he writes about with regrda to assisting patients from their perspective is essential in today'stherapy sessions and I wholeheartedly agree with him. No one has the right to talk down to another person or treat you as a third or fourth rate person just because you have an illness. After being treated over the years like this as someone with lived experience of Major Depression and suicidality, it would be morally and ethically corrupt of me to treat clients with anything but the highest respect.
I'll let Laing finish this review. He writes:
"The task in therapy then comes to be to make contact with the original 'self' of the individual which, or who, we must believe is still a possibility, if not an actuality, and can still be nursed back to a feasible life" (p.158/159).
In Two Minds - Stories of murder, justice and recovery from a forensic psychiatrist by Dr Sohom Das. Paper Back Edition - published in 2023 by Little Brown , Printed in Great Britain. ISBN: 978-0-7515-8379-3. RRP UK£12.99 / CAN$19.99 / US$17.99
What is Psychopathy? Prof Robert Hare a Canadian Psychologist is considered one of the leading scientists in this subject puts it like this:
[A] self-centred, callous and remorseless person profoundly lacking in empathy and the ability to form warm emotional relationships with others. A person who functions without restraint of a conscience (Hare, 1993 as cited in Nyholm & Nyholm, 2012).
Although Hare, Neuman and others have provided extensive research into psychopathy, the modern 'father' of Psychopathy was Harvey Cleckly an American Psychiatrist in the early 20th century. He published a book entitled "The mask of sanity" (1941). He had been treating a number of patients in prisons and mental asylums who displayed symptoms that were totally different. They lacked the symptoms & characteristics of his other patients. He stated:
"Aside from these groups and aside from all the types of patients recognised as psychotic, there remains for our consideration a large body of people who are incapable of leading normal lives and whose behaviour causes greatest distress in every community (Cleckley, 1941, p. 27)."
Cleckley then goes on to call these groups of patients "Psychopaths". Psychopaths have always existed hidden amongst the rest of humanity. History has shown that psychopathy has been written about even as far back as 700 BCE when the bible book of Deuteronomy was written by Moses stating some of the symptoms and again in 371 BCE by a Greek philosopher Theophrastus (Kiehl, 2020, p. 36 & 37). Although they have the same core deviances, they can mask themselves to some degree and hide within crowds in society. A number of research papers have demonstrated that most psychopath's who have a low IQ tend to be more violent where as those with a high IQ can be more sly and cunning (Hare, 1993, p. 102-107). No matter what their IQ, they are master manipulators and rule breakers just the same. Psychopaths can have a significant impact on society. While a small minority may engage in violent criminal behaviour, others may succeed in positions of power and influence, exploiting and manipulating others for personal gain.
How can I tell who they are?
Psychopathy is a serious personality disorder characterized by a profound lack of empathy, remorse, and conscience. While often depicted in popular media as violent criminals, psychopaths can exist in all levels of society, from corporate executives to charming con artists.
Key Characteristics of Psychopathy:
Lack of Empathy and Remorse: Psychopaths struggle to understand or share the feelings of others. They rarely feel guilt or remorse for their actions, even when they cause significant harm.
Superficial Charm and Manipulativeness: Psychopaths can be incredibly charming and persuasive. They use this charisma to exploit and manipulate others for their own gain.
Grandiose Sense of Self-Worth: They often possess an inflated sense of their own importance and abilities, while simultaneously devaluing others.
Callousness and Lack of Affect: They display a lack of concern for the suffering of others and often appear emotionally cold and detached.
Impulsivity and Irresponsibility: Psychopaths tend to act impulsively and irresponsibly, often disregarding the consequences of their actions.
Parasitic Lifestyle: They often exploit and manipulate others for personal gain, relying on others to support them financially or emotionally.
Back in the 1970's, psychologist Robert Hare and colleagues constructed a diagnostic tool called the Psychopathy Checklist (PCL). Since then, the checklist has been revised to the current version in use entitled PCL-R which is made up of four sections and can take between 3-4 hours to complete with the patient/prisoner. Although there are other assessment tools, the PCL-R is the most widely used assessment tool for diagnosing psychopathy. It is a comprehensive instrument that evaluates individuals on numerous factors, including interpersonal, affective, and lifestyle characteristics. Other ways of diagnosing or confirming a diagnosis is by using brain scanning equipment such as MRI & fMRI machines as wells as EEG's (for a detailed understanding of these methods, please see the book The Psychopath Whisperer by Dr Kent Kiehl, 2014).
Keeping the population safe
Serial killers and rapists tend to capture people imagination and many TV programmes, pod casts, books, magazines and radio shows etc., have been created about them. Although not all serial killers and serial rapists are psychopathic, a large proportion are. To illustrate, here are some famous, or should I say infamous, British psychopaths:
Jack the Ripper
Charles Bronson
Peter Sutcliff
Dennis Neilson
Ronnie Cray
Peter Bryan
Graham Young
Delroy Grant
Patrick (Nosey) Kelly
Joanne Dennehy
Each country has its own judicial or justice system. These systems usually don't know what to do with their psychopathic population. Prisons and correctional centres around them world dislike housing them within the general offender population although research shows that they, on the surface of it at least, tend to be 'model' prisoners. However, they tend to be behind most of the violence and disorder within prisons. On the other hand, special secure forensic hospitals don't want them either. Most psychopaths do not believe they are mentally ill and take offence at being placed in such hospital wards thus they cause considerable difficulties for the nursing and medical staff. Within the England and Wales, there are three 'special' high secure hospitals that are run by the NHS. These are:
Broadmoor in Berkshire
Ashworth in Liverpool
Rampton in Nottingham
There are also smaller medium and low security forensic hospitals or specific wards/units around the UK. Some of the prisons (HMPPS) have special units for server personality disorders called PIPES or Psychologically informed planned environments (House of Lords, 2023). One of these is HMPPS Grendon (HMPPS stands for His Majesties Prison and Probation Service and has replaced the old HMP and NPS or national probation service in England and Wales) located in Buckinghamshire. Although these units deal with all types of violent offenders and all personality disorders, a high proportion of Grendon's and PIPES population suffer from psychopathy and have been sent there due to the fact they can not be managed by general prison wings.
So - who's a naughty psychopath then?
Even those that undergo specialist training in diagnosing psychopathy, which Jon Ronson calls "Psychopath spotters", can at times miss them. Why? Well there likened to Chameleons for a very good reason. They blend in. They a great at faking it by learning from others around them. So if you have read this article and felt that you know one or two or are even married to one (male or female) - run! or ask the police to see if they have a record under what is called Claire's Law.
Disclaimer: This information is for general knowledge only. For diagnosis and treatment of any mental health condition, consult a qualified mental health professional. This blog post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical or psychological advice. I hope this blog post provides a helpful overview of psychopathy. This blog post aims to provide a general understanding of psychopathy based on existing research.
There is much debate surrounding psychopathy and its validity even though it is one of the most widely researched mental/personality disorders. Here is a made up conversation between two respected psychologists - who do you agree with??
The Psychopathy Debate
Meet the Characters:
Dr. Evelyn Walsh: A clinical psychologist specializing in personality disorders.
Dr. Mark Carter: A forensic psychologist with expertise in criminal behaviour.
Setting:
A university conference room.
(Scene opens with Dr. Walsh and Dr. Carter seated at a table, engaging in a lively discussion.)
Dr. Walsh: Mark, I understand your perspective, but I fundamentally disagree with the classification of psychopathy as a mental health disorder.
Dr. Carter: Evelyn, I find that categorization crucial. It allows us to understand the underlying psychological mechanisms and develop appropriate interventions.
Dr. Walsh: I believe the focus on psychopathy as a disorder pathologizes individuals who may simply exhibit certain personality traits. Many of the characteristics associated with psychopathy, such as boldness and dominance, can be observed in successful individuals across various fields.
Dr. Carter: While that may be true in some cases, we must acknowledge the significant harm that individuals with high psychopathy scores can inflict on others. Research by Robert Hare, particularly his work on the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), has consistently demonstrated a strong link between high psychopathy scores and criminal behaviour, violence, and recidivism.
Dr. Walsh: I acknowledge the validity of the PCL-R as a tool for assessing certain personality traits. However, it oversimplifies complex human behaviour. It focuses on negative aspects, neglecting the potential for positive contributions from individuals who may score high on some psychopathy dimensions.
Dr. Carter: I agree that the PCL-R has limitations. However, it provides a valuable framework for understanding individuals who exhibit a constellation of traits that pose a significant risk to themselves and others. Neuroimaging studies, such as those conducted by James Fallon, have shown that individuals with high psychopathy scores exhibit distinct brain abnormalities, particularly in regions associated with empathy and emotional regulation.
Dr. Walsh: While neuroimaging studies offer intriguing insights, they cannot definitively prove that these brain differences are the cause of psychopathic behaviour. Environmental factors, such as early childhood trauma and adverse social experiences, undoubtedly play a crucial role.
Dr. Carter: I agree that environmental factors are significant. However, I believe that recognizing psychopathy as a disorder allows for more targeted interventions, such as specialized treatment programs aimed at addressing the underlying deficits in empathy, emotional regulation, and impulse control.
Dr. Walsh: I believe the focus should be on addressing harmful behaviours, regardless of whether they are labelled as symptoms of a disorder. We need to develop interventions that promote prosocial behaviour and reduce the risk of harm to others.
Dr. Carter: I believe that acknowledging psychopathy as a disorder, while acknowledging its limitations, provides a valuable framework for understanding and addressing the challenges presented by individuals who exhibit these traits.
(Scene ends with both psychologists acknowledging the complexity of the issue and the need for continued research and dialogue.)
Note: This script presents a simplified version of a complex debate. The views expressed by the characters are not necessarily representative of all psychologists' opinions.
Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical or psychological advice. It is crucial to remember that not everyone who exhibits some of these traits is a psychopath. Psychopathy is a complex disorder that requires professional assessment and diagnosis.
Further Reading:
Snakes in Suits - Prof. Robert Hare & Prof. Paul Babiak - Harper Collins Publishers
Without Conscience - Prof Robert Hare - Guilford Publishers
The Mask of Sanity - Dr Harvey Cleckley - EPBM
The Psychopathy Whisperer - Dr Kent Kiehl - Oneworld Publishers
Rebel Without A Cause - Dr Lindner - Other Publishers
The Psychopathy Test - Jon Ronson - Picador Publishers
True Life British Psychopath's:
A Passion for Poison - Carol Ann Lee - JB Publishers
The London Underground Serial Killer - Geoff Platt - Pen & Sword Publishers
Wicked Beyond Belief - Michael Bilton - Harper Press
Killing For Company - Brian Masters - Penguin Publishers
Negotiating Chris Voss Style
A book review of former FBI chief international negotiator Chris Voss' 2022 (with Tahl Raz) paperback book Never Split The Difference - Negotiating as if your life depended on it.
Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It is a mind blowing and hard hitting book by authored by none other than Chris Voss, a former FBI head international hostage negotiator. If it was going to blow or shoot up in the most dramatic of ways - then Chris was your man for the job. Voss is now a private consultant and director of The Black Swan Group and lecturers in negotiating skills at a number of top American universities including Harvard and MIT. In this book, Voss takes readers on a perilous journey through the high-stakes world of international and domestic terrorist hostage negotiations and translates his experiences into practical, everyday negotiation strategies you could use at home, work, school or just about anywhere.
The central theme of the book is that traditional negotiation tactics taught at university and training camps across the world, often based on compromise and mutual agreement, are not as effective as tactical empathy and psychological techniques. Voss introduces concepts like the "accusation audit," mirroring, labelling and the power of "no" without actually saying the word to demonstrate how understanding and leveraging the hostage takers own human psychology and cognitive states against them can lead to successful negotiations and saved lives. One of the main standout aspects of Never Split the Difference is Voss's ability to weave real-life anecdotes from his career with actionable advice that works. This not only makes the book a really engaging read but provides readers with a clear understanding of how to apply these psychological techniques in various situations, from business deals to personal and family interactions.
Voss's writing is direct, carefully constructed and approachable - just like his negotiating tactics, making complex psychological principles accessible to readers without needing a degree in negotiation or psychology to understand it. Each chapter is packed with practical his tips and strategies that can be implemented immediately, making it a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their negotiation skills. For example, on pages 92 to 95 Chris introduces us to is one line "email magic" - "Have you given up on this project?". So if are having problems getting a response from a business or individual whether it is in response to a job, purchase, contract negotiation or family problem - it is guaranteed to work - and it does! I tried it myself with a problem I am having with my employer who has unprofessionally been ignoring my emails and within an hour of sending the one line magic, I had had a response within an hour of sending it and on a weekend!!
Overall, this 274 page marvel - Never Split the Difference is an essential read for anyone who wants to become a more effective negotiator or just wants to get more out of life. Voss's insights and methods challenge conventional the conventional wisdom and provide a fresh and unique perspective on how to achieve better outcomes in your life. The book is both informative and entertaining, making it a must-have for professionals, entrepreneurs, and anyone interested in the art of negotiation.
This book review examined the 2022 edition of Chris Voss (with Tahl Raz) in Never Split the Difference - Negotiating as if your life depended on it. Published by Penguin Random House UK books. ISBN: 978-1-847-94149-7. RRP £10.99. Non-Fiction. Available from all good book stores in the High Street and Online.
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