Gold Standard In Cognitive Providence

Clear Thinking - The Art and Science of Making Better Decisions by Shane Parrish (2024).  Published by Penguin Random House London.  Paper Back Edition.  ISBN:978-1-804-94703-6.  RRP UK£10.99.  

This book uses common sense and a little bit of Parrish pixie dust.  Use wisely what this book has to offer - it just could be the remedy you need to succeed in your life or business!

All animals, great and small, feel pain, have some level of cognitive thought and reasoning (especially cats, dogs, apes, crows, octopus etc.) but being able to compute the minutest of information and reason with ourselves what the wisest course of action would be (apart from having a conscience) is what helps to make us distinct creatures.

Shane Parrish, an American former CIA agent turned financial and business consultant reminds us of the importance of using 'Clear Thinking' in his same titled masterpiece and internationally acclaimed book.  This crucial advice is a must to be able to apply in your dealings with Wall Street, the NASDAQ, UK Stock Exchange and the other world wide financial markets.  However, using Shane's 'Clear Thinking' in our everyday personal life can help us to prioritise the right things and people!

Shane's use of what he has leaned in his career along with excellent advice from his mentor's, business leaders, academics and family has been turned into this brilliant book.  He takes us through his 5 key pillars, that if applied correctly, will make you see things much more clearly.  These include:

1. The enemies of clear thinking

2. Building strength

3. Managing our weaknesses

4. Decisions in action, and

5. Wanting what matters in life.

Shane also reminds us of the importance of stopping something we all do, sometimes quite automatically - blaming others for our own mistakes. He uses as an example a conversation he had with a mentor many years ago.  Shane had applied for promotion but had not got the job.  He was fuming.  After some time ranting his mentor stopped him by saying: "Your refusal to accept something that has already happened is crazy."  Shane was socked.  So his mentor explained that although he was sorry to hear that he did not get the job which he could do - it was down to him now to take control of this situation and learn from it.

It is so difficult to do this.  Like Shane we will feel angry, shocked, bitter or even just alarmed at ourselves.  In chapter 2.1 (p.43) Shane drives home the point by using a quote from W.E. Henley author and poet who wrote Invictus: 

"I am the master of my fate,

I am the Captain of my soul."

Another suggestion is to get away what he terms "binary thinking" (p.148) reminding us to apply "both and options".  What did he mean by this?  He quotes from F Scot Fitzgerald: 

"The test of a first rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in our mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function."

So called modern thinking gets us to see things in twos - yes/no, pain/pleasure, good/evil, boy/girl and so on.  But this is only a more recent conception.  Life and the world around us does not work in binary alone.  So although it is good to have a back up plan you will need a plan for each plan!  This way we are likely to succeed and be able to look and prepare for the future and not limited our present and future.  This is what gets a head of our competition.  

Many of Shane's suggestions involve ways to improve our homelife including our friendships, partners, children, parents and so on.  He time and again reminds us that money is not what we live for or gain true happiness with.  This can only be gained from our personal relationships.  Investing time, the greatest of all resources, with family and friends will help us reap rich rewards.  

This book is one I enjoyed reading and felt it could be something that all of us could put to good use.

 

 

The Real Silent Witness.

Shocking cases from the world of forensic science by Wensley Clarkson.  Non-Fiction Paper Back Book Edition (2021) Published by Welbeck Publishing and Printed in Great Britain. ISBN: 9781787395619. RRP UK£8.99 / US$11.95

When someone passes away two doctors have to check for extinction of life and to see if the death was natural.  If it is believed that another human could be involved, then police and the local Coroner must be contacted.  The police at first will act on behalf of the Coroner and follow their instructions to investigate the circumstances.  The Coroner has the power to order an autopsy .  If it is discovered that a crime has been committed, the Coroner halts their proceedings and hands over the case to the police and criminal justice system.  

What is an autopsy?  Not that long ago it would of meant that a trained specialist doctor called a Pathologist or Forensic Pathologist would check the body outside and in for signs of trauma.  Today however there is a non-invasive autopsy using a MRI machine that scans the complete body and is checked by specialist consultant radiographers.  In the BBC TV drama that this book is based on gives the impression of high tech no money spared investigations by a forensic pathologist and team.  Sadly in the real world we live in, Wesley explains that tests and investigations can take anything from a few hours to near on a year.  Tests and using this technology costs and is paid for by the police force asking fore the test.  Sometimes there are no tests available as that time so samples are taken and keep in a sterile way for when the technology is available in the future.  Photographs are taken, witness from the police watch the autopsy if carried out.  Then there is all the work that both the police and Coroner's team undertake.  

I love the way Wensley Clarkson has written this book.  Its easy to follow and understand although it contains medical and legal processes throughout.  In the 296 pages this paper back edition (2021), we are taken on a journey that consists of four different sections:

1. Introduction

2. History of Forensic Science

3. Real Case Histories of Crimes and Cold Cases

4. The Story Behind the TV Show

Wensley also includes a section that lists all the legal and medical jargon and explains what each word means.  Before the author delves into the full real life stories the show is based on, he mentions something called "The Silent Witness Effect".  This is also known as 'The CSI Effect'.  This is were members of the public watch TV shows like Silent Witness, CSI and other police dramas and believe that not only is forensics infallible but tests are carried out in just minutes.  The truth is not always so easy.  At times cases are dropped due to insuffient evidence as they contain extremly poor material or the ivestigation was compromised in some way.  One case that shouts out loud about this is the devestating death of young 18 year old Mr Stephen Lawrence from Eltham South East London.  If not for the shear bravery of Stephen's family, especially his parents, the Metropolitan Police in London would of kept this case hidden from public eyes and partial justice would not of been served.

As a fan of the TV show, it is illuminating to have read this book and how it reveals the cases that some of the shows are based on.  Also, the ends to which the writers and producers have gone to to ensure the show is respectful and as accurate as possible as a TV drama can be is nothing short of amazing.  I would most certainly encourgae you read this brilliant book.

The Divided Self.

Book author: Dr R. D. Laing

The Divided Self by R.D. Laing. Paperback Edition. Published in 1960 & 2010 by Penguin Modern Classics, printed in Great Britain.  ISBN: 978-0-241-56297-0 RRP UK£10.99

 

"At some stage a machine which was previously assembled... may find its connexions divided".... Norbert Wiener in Human use of human beings.

Have you ever accidentally split your clothing?  That beautiful skirt or expensive designer suit are now torn apart.  Usually you can take that item of clothing to an expert like a tailor or seamstress who will endeavour to fix that item without it looking as if were ever damaged.  Sadly, at times this is just not possible - the damage is to great.  Laing's classic book The Divided Self (1960 & 2010) talks about people that are extremely mentally unwell.  He writes from not just the perspective of a psychiatrist but from someone who genuinely wants to destigmatise and de-medicalise these conditions.  He expresses this through what he calls 'a phenomenological lens'.  So what is phenomenology and how will this help us interpret Laing's book?

Understanding the written word using the written word

Phenomenology is a form of scientific qualitative research- examines the written word or our speech - based in philosophical ideals. This research type was constructed back in 1870 by a professor called Edmond Husserl from Germany.  It literally means to look at the experiences of humanity from the perspective of the person who wrote it in the same time or period that it was written (Stanford Universities Philosophical Encyclopaedia, 2003).  

To some his book can be a bit of a handful and difficult to understand as Laing wrote it in a scientific jargon laid way rather in a more general public friendly way like some of his contemporises at the time (1960/70's) such as Oliver Sacks, Stanley Milgram or Phillip Zimbardo.  Laing tries to reveal the conditions & life history of five of his patients that suffered from chronic mental illness - Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder etc.  He attempts to understand what has caused this so called 'split' in their person compared to those did not exhibit these symptoms.  He was well known for his attempts at seeing the patient as an equal and as a person worthy of respect and being treated with dignity.  This was a radical idea back then and one that was not very popular in the psychiatric or medical field who had always told patients to never question a decision or diagnosis let alone to treat them with respect!  We have doctors like Laing to thank for the slightly more open way medicine treats its patients especially its "mental" ones.  These men and women were real trail blazers.  

The paperback edition (2010) version has got a new introduction by Dr Anthony David who is a neurologist and lectures at the Maudsley & Bethlem (former Bedlam) NHS Hospitals in North London, UK.  Laing splits this book into three sections: 1. Theory 2. Psychosis and lastly examination of his own ideas through a more detailed patient history.  

"The only living things in the prairie were wild beasts.  Rats infested this city.  Her existence was depicted in images of utterly barren, arid desolation" (p.205).

Although I am a scientist and understand phenomenology some what, I personally found it difficult to read and had to go through it in stages.  It was hard to get on Lains's wave length at times.  Although some of what he writes about with regrda to assisting patients from their perspective is essential in today'stherapy sessions and I wholeheartedly agree with him.  No one has the right to talk down to another person or treat you as a third or fourth rate person just because you have an illness.  After being treated over the years like this as someone with lived experience of Major Depression and suicidality, it would be morally and ethically corrupt of me to treat clients with anything but the highest respect.

I'll let Laing finish this review.  He writes:

"The task in therapy then comes to be to make contact with the original 'self' of the individual which, or who, we must believe is still a possibility, if not an actuality, and can still be nursed back to a feasible life" (p.158/159).

 

Psychopathy: Understanding the Mind of the Master Manipulator!

Highly qualified and motivated professionals

What is Psychopathy? Prof Robert Hare a Canadian Psychologist is considered one of the leading scientists in this subject puts it like this:

[A] self-centred, callous and remorseless person profoundly lacking in empathy and the ability to form warm emotional relationships with others. A person who functions without restraint of a conscience (Hare, 1993 as cited in Nyholm & Nyholm, 2012).

Although Hare, Neuman and others have provided extensive research into psychopathy, the modern 'father' of Psychopathy was Harvey Cleckly an American Psychiatrist in the early 20th century. He published a book entitled "The mask of sanity" (1941). He had been treating a number of patients in prisons and mental asylums who displayed symptoms that were totally different. They lacked the symptoms & characteristics of his other patients. He stated:

"Aside from these groups and aside from all the types of patients recognised as psychotic, there remains for our consideration a large body of people who are incapable of leading normal lives and whose behaviour causes greatest distress in every community (Cleckley, 1941, p. 27)."

Cleckley then goes on to call these groups of patients "Psychopaths". Psychopaths have always existed hidden amongst the rest of humanity. History has shown that psychopathy has been written about even as far back as 700 BCE when the bible book of Deuteronomy was written by Moses stating some of the symptoms and again in 371 BCE by a Greek philosopher Theophrastus (Kiehl, 2020, p. 36 & 37). Although they have the same core deviances, they can mask themselves to some degree and hide within crowds in society. A number of research papers have demonstrated that most psychopath's who have a low IQ tend to be more violent where as those with a high IQ can be more sly and cunning (Hare, 1993, p. 102-107). No matter what their IQ, they are master manipulators and rule breakers just the same. Psychopaths can have a significant impact on society. While a small minority may engage in violent criminal behaviour, others may succeed in positions of power and influence, exploiting and manipulating others for personal gain. 

How can I tell who they are?

Psychopathy is a serious personality disorder characterized by a profound lack of empathy, remorse, and conscience. While often depicted in popular media as violent criminals, psychopaths can exist in all levels of society, from corporate executives to charming con artists. 

Key Characteristics of Psychopathy:  

Lack of Empathy and Remorse: Psychopaths struggle to understand or share the feelings of others. They rarely feel guilt or remorse for their actions, even when they cause significant harm.  

 Superficial Charm and Manipulativeness: Psychopaths can be incredibly charming and persuasive. They use this charisma to exploit and manipulate others for their own gain.  

Grandiose Sense of Self-Worth: They often possess an inflated sense of their own importance and abilities, while simultaneously devaluing others.   

Callousness and Lack of Affect: They display a lack of concern for the suffering of others and often appear emotionally cold and detached.   

Impulsivity and Irresponsibility: Psychopaths tend to act impulsively and irresponsibly, often disregarding the consequences of their actions.   

Parasitic Lifestyle: They often exploit and manipulate others for personal gain, relying on others to support them financially or emotionally.  

Back in the 1970's, psychologist Robert Hare and colleagues constructed a diagnostic tool called the Psychopathy Checklist (PCL). Since then, the checklist has been revised to the current version in use entitled PCL-R which is made up of four sections and can take between 3-4 hours to complete with the patient/prisoner. Although there are other assessment tools, the PCL-R is the most widely used assessment tool for diagnosing psychopathy. It is a comprehensive instrument that evaluates individuals on numerous factors, including interpersonal, affective, and lifestyle characteristics.  Other ways of diagnosing or confirming a diagnosis is by using brain scanning equipment such as MRI & fMRI machines as wells as EEG's (for a detailed understanding of these methods, please see the book The Psychopath Whisperer by Dr Kent Kiehl, 2014).

Keeping the population safe

Serial killers and rapists tend to capture people imagination and many TV programmes, pod casts, books, magazines and radio shows etc., have been created about them. Although not all serial killers and serial rapists are psychopathic, a large proportion are. To illustrate, here are some famous, or should I say infamous, British psychopaths:

Jack the Ripper

Charles Bronson

Peter Sutcliff

Dennis Neilson

Ronnie Cray

Peter Bryan

Graham Young

Delroy Grant

Patrick (Nosey) Kelly

Joanne Dennehy

Each country has its own judicial or justice system. These systems usually don't know what to do with their psychopathic population. Prisons and correctional centres around them world dislike housing them within the general offender population although research shows that they, on the surface of it at least, tend to be 'model' prisoners. However, they tend to be behind most of the violence and disorder within prisons. On the other hand, special secure forensic hospitals don't want them either. Most psychopaths do not believe they are mentally ill and take offence at being placed in such hospital wards thus they cause considerable difficulties for the nursing and medical staff. Within the England and Wales, there are three 'special' high secure hospitals that are run by the NHS. These are: 
 

Broadmoor in Berkshire

Ashworth in Liverpool

Rampton in Nottingham
 

There are also smaller medium and low security forensic hospitals or specific wards/units around the UK. Some of the prisons (HMPPS) have special units for server personality disorders called PIPES or Psychologically informed planned environments (House of Lords, 2023). One of these is HMPPS Grendon (HMPPS stands for His Majesties Prison and Probation Service and has replaced the old HMP and NPS or national probation service in England and Wales) located in Buckinghamshire. Although these units deal with all types of violent offenders and all personality disorders, a high proportion of Grendon's and PIPES population suffer from psychopathy and have been sent there due to the fact they can not be managed by general prison wings.
 

So - who's a naughty psychopath then?
 

Even those that undergo specialist training in diagnosing psychopathy, which Jon Ronson calls "Psychopath spotters", can at times miss them. Why? Well there likened to Chameleons for a very good reason. They blend in. They a great at faking it by learning from others around them. So if you have read this article and felt that you know one or two or are even married to one (male or female) - run! or ask the police to see if they have a record under what is called Claire's Law.
 

Disclaimer: This information is for general knowledge only. For diagnosis and treatment of any mental health condition, consult a qualified mental health professional. This blog post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical or psychological advice. I hope this blog post provides a helpful overview of psychopathy. This blog post aims to provide a general understanding of psychopathy based on existing research. 
 

There is much debate surrounding psychopathy and its validity even though it is one of the most widely researched mental/personality disorders. Here is a made up conversation between two respected psychologists - who do you agree with??
 

The Psychopathy Debate 
 

Meet the Characters:  

Dr. Evelyn Walsh:  A clinical psychologist specializing in personality disorders.  

Dr. Mark Carter: A forensic psychologist with expertise in criminal behaviour.  
 

Setting: 
 

A university conference room. 


 

(Scene opens with Dr. Walsh and Dr. Carter seated at a table, engaging in a lively discussion.) 


 

Dr. Walsh: Mark, I understand your perspective, but I fundamentally disagree with the classification of psychopathy as a mental health disorder. 


 

Dr. Carter: Evelyn, I find that categorization crucial. It allows us to understand the underlying psychological mechanisms and develop appropriate interventions. 


 

Dr. Walsh: I believe the focus on psychopathy as a disorder pathologizes individuals who may simply exhibit certain personality traits. Many of the characteristics associated with psychopathy, such as boldness and dominance, can be observed in successful individuals across various fields. 


 

Dr. Carter: While that may be true in some cases, we must acknowledge the significant harm that individuals with high psychopathy scores can inflict on others. Research by Robert Hare, particularly his work on the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), has consistently demonstrated a strong link between high psychopathy scores and criminal behaviour, violence, and recidivism. 


 

Dr. Walsh: I acknowledge the validity of the PCL-R as a tool for assessing certain personality traits. However, it oversimplifies complex human behaviour. It focuses on negative aspects, neglecting the potential for positive contributions from individuals who may score high on some psychopathy dimensions. 


 

Dr. Carter: I agree that the PCL-R has limitations. However, it provides a valuable framework for understanding individuals who exhibit a constellation of traits that pose a significant risk to themselves and others. Neuroimaging studies, such as those conducted by James Fallon, have shown that individuals with high psychopathy scores exhibit distinct brain abnormalities, particularly in regions associated with empathy and emotional regulation. 


 

Dr. Walsh: While neuroimaging studies offer intriguing insights, they cannot definitively prove that these brain differences are the cause of psychopathic behaviour. Environmental factors, such as early childhood trauma and adverse social experiences, undoubtedly play a crucial role. 


 

Dr. Carter: I agree that environmental factors are significant. However, I believe that recognizing psychopathy as a disorder allows for more targeted interventions, such as specialized treatment programs aimed at addressing the underlying deficits in empathy, emotional regulation, and impulse control. 


 

Dr. Walsh: I believe the focus should be on addressing harmful behaviours, regardless of whether they are labelled as symptoms of a disorder. We need to develop interventions that promote prosocial behaviour and reduce the risk of harm to others. 


 

Dr. Carter: I believe that acknowledging psychopathy as a disorder, while acknowledging its limitations, provides a valuable framework for understanding and addressing the challenges presented by individuals who exhibit these traits. 


 

(Scene ends with both psychologists acknowledging the complexity of the issue and the need for continued research and dialogue.) 


 

Note: This script presents a simplified version of a complex debate. The views expressed by the characters are not necessarily representative of all psychologists' opinions. 


 

Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical or psychological advice. It is crucial to remember that not everyone who exhibits some of these traits is a psychopath. Psychopathy is a complex disorder that requires professional assessment and diagnosis. 


 

Further Reading: 


 

Snakes in Suits - Prof. Robert Hare & Prof. Paul Babiak - Harper Collins Publishers

Without Conscience - Prof Robert Hare - Guilford Publishers

The Mask of Sanity - Dr Harvey Cleckley - EPBM

The Psychopathy Whisperer - Dr Kent Kiehl - Oneworld Publishers

Rebel Without A Cause - Dr Lindner - Other Publishers

The Psychopathy Test - Jon Ronson - Picador Publishers


 

True Life British Psychopath's:
 

A Passion for Poison - Carol Ann Lee - JB Publishers

The London Underground Serial Killer - Geoff Platt - Pen & Sword Publishers

Wicked Beyond Belief - Michael Bilton - Harper Press

Killing For Company - Brian Masters - Penguin Publishers

Never Split The Difference. Negotiating as if your life depended on it!

Book Author: Chris Voss & Taz Raz

Negotiating Chris Voss Style
 

A book review of former FBI chief international negotiator Chris Voss' 2022 (with Tahl Raz) paperback book Never Split The Difference - Negotiating as if your life depended on it.

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It is a mind blowing and hard hitting book by authored by none other than Chris Voss, a former FBI head international hostage negotiator. If it was going to blow or shoot up in the most dramatic of ways - then Chris was your man for the job. Voss is now a private consultant and director of The Black Swan Group and lecturers in negotiating skills at a number of top American universities including Harvard and MIT. In this book, Voss takes readers on a perilous journey through the high-stakes world of international and domestic terrorist hostage negotiations and translates his experiences into practical, everyday negotiation strategies you could use at home, work, school or just about anywhere.

The central theme of the book is that traditional negotiation tactics taught at university and training camps across the world, often based on compromise and mutual agreement, are not as effective as tactical empathy and psychological techniques. Voss introduces concepts like the "accusation audit," mirroring, labelling and the power of "no" without actually saying the word to demonstrate how understanding and leveraging the hostage takers own human psychology and cognitive states against them can lead to successful negotiations and saved lives. One of the main standout aspects of Never Split the Difference is Voss's ability to weave real-life anecdotes from his career with actionable advice that works. This not only makes the book a really engaging read but provides readers with a clear understanding of how to apply these psychological techniques in various situations, from business deals to personal and family interactions.

Voss's writing is direct, carefully constructed and approachable - just like his negotiating tactics, making complex psychological principles accessible to readers without needing a degree in negotiation or psychology to understand it. Each chapter is packed with practical his tips and strategies that can be implemented immediately, making it a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their negotiation skills. For example, on pages 92 to 95 Chris introduces us to is one line "email magic" - "Have you given up on this project?". So if are having problems getting a response from a business or individual whether it is in response to a job, purchase, contract negotiation or family problem - it is guaranteed to work - and it does! I tried it myself with a problem I am having with my employer who has unprofessionally been ignoring my emails and within an hour of sending the one line magic, I had had a response within an hour of sending it and on a weekend!!

Overall, this 274 page marvel - Never Split the Difference is an essential read for anyone who wants to become a more effective negotiator or just wants to get more out of life. Voss's insights and methods challenge conventional the conventional wisdom and provide a fresh and unique perspective on how to achieve better outcomes in your life. The book is both informative and entertaining, making it a must-have for professionals, entrepreneurs, and anyone interested in the art of negotiation.

This book review examined the 2022 edition of Chris Voss (with Tahl Raz) in Never Split the Difference - Negotiating as if your life depended on it. Published by Penguin Random House UK books. ISBN: 978-1-847-94149-7. RRP £10.99. Non-Fiction. Available from all good book stores in the High Street and Online.


 

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